Many coaches are parents, but the two roles should not be confused.
As a coach you are responsible not only to yourself and your child,
but also to the organization, all the players on the team, and their
parents. Because of this additional responsibility your behavior on
the playing field will be different from your behavior at home, and
your son or daughter may not understand why.
Imagine
the confusion of a young boy who is the center of his parents' attention
at home but is barely noticed by his mother/ coach in the sport setting.
You need to explain to your son or daughter your new responsibilities
and how they will affect your relationship when coaching.
What
are my responsibilities as a coach?
Provide
an enjoyable experience. Sports should be fun. Even if nothing else
is accomplished, make certain your players have fun. Take the fun out
of sports and you'll take the child out of sports.
Provide
a safe experience. Your are responsible for planning and teaching activities
in such a way that the progression between activities minimizes risks.
Protect yourself from any legal liability that might arise from your
involvement as a coach.
Provide
opportunities for children with disabilities. There is a posibility
that a child with a disability of some kind will register for your team.
Don't panic! Keep in mind that children with disabilities want the same
opportunities to participate as any other children. Give them the same
support and encouragement that you give other athletes.
Teach basic
skills. Don't get caught up in only working with your one or two 'all-stars'
so that you can win every game. In becoming a coach, you take on the
role of educator. You must teach your players the fundamental skills
and strategies necessary for success in their sport. Veteran coaches
in your league are an especially good source of help for you. They have
all experienced the same emotions and concerns you are facing, and their
advise can be invaluable as you work through your first season.