I'm a first time coach, never played football, but spent this summer reading up a lot including much of this site. I also spent some $$ on 'headache offense' and Jonathan helped me get started with a playbook. I've also taken some plays from opponents that I found worked well against us. I think I have a good mix of plays, some to play against a man defense, some for zone. But we are three weeks in and I feel like I've hit a wall and I'm not sure what to do. My problem is this. We have 10 players on the team, we play 5v5 NFL flag football rules. Of the 10, I have three people that are good offensively. - The "Team 1 " QB (my son, he played QB last year for a different coach) who is small but very fast, smart but has a max accurate range of about 12-14 yards, - one really big/tall kid who can catch VERY well but is slow, and - one kid who is the smallest on the team but is REALLY FAST, agile and catches well. He also hates playing offense which is too bad because he's my best offensive player. All three of these kids are on "TEAM 1". BTW all my kids are short with the exception of the one guy I mentioned, and we're very often outmatched in height and speed and throwing range. We got mercied last week playing against last years superbowl champs who were all as tall or taller than my tallest guy and 7 of 10 were as fast or faster than my fastest. They also had 6 returning players who have a lot of experience working together. Then we have defense. I have two really good kids here, which are the same two I mention above. I have a few others that are reasonably decent at pulling flags but they are all slow (like, really slow) and less agile. If someone gets past them, it's almost always up to my safety to chase them down. I try very hard to get them to push the ball carrier into the middle, but it's still a work in progress. So I split up the two good kids between the two defense teams and they both play safety and are generally the ones making most of the stops. We'll play a mix of zone and man. I have an asst coach working defense which has been a big help. My game this week went like this..... TEAM 1 plays about 20 of the first 30 minutes, we're up by 20 at half. Most of the TDs are made by the super fast kid, they can't stop the guy. But by the 2nd half, the two really good kids are starting to get pretty tired as they're running all over the place on defense. By 40 minutes in we're up by 10, by 50 we're down by 1 and at the end we lose by 15. My best kid was hurt at about 50 minutes (falling on his own flag belt), took a 5 minute break then just kind of gave up. TEAM 2 unfortunately hurts us more than helps us. I would like to make something of them, but with one hour a week to practice, there isn't a ton of opportunity. I thought about taking my son out of QB and moving him to the other team as a receiver, but then he'd be even more tired running all the time on offense and defense. I also don't have any good candidates for QB to replace him (I have a couple of plays where he isn't QB and gets to run or throw). I blame myself in a lot of respects, I suspect a good coach would be able to make a competitive team out of whatever hand they are dealt. My lack of experience doesn't help. Obviously it's not fair for three kids to carry the whole team, it's a lot to put on them and I also need to be fair to the rest of the kids and let them play too. It just hurts me to see a few guys bust their butts, get us up by 20 points then just watch as we fall apart, and I hear them talk about it ("there goes our shot at the playoffs"). I keep things positive with everybody and point out all the things we're doing right as well as working on things that we're doing wrong, but inside I feel like I've let these kids down. Any thoughts, ideas, would be greatly appreciated.