| Never
under-estimate the power of attitude. Both the coaches attitude
and the attitude of the players on the team can be the deciding
factor in how the team develops and prospers.
The
core of our attitude is inside, but the results of our attitude
are outside. Our attitude can be our best friend, or our worst
enemy. It is the characteristic that will draw people to us or
turn people against us. It is the librarian of our past, the speaker
of our present and the prophet of our future.
Attitude
is the key to getting along with others and moving ahead in life.
The player with the right attitude is more than willing to work
hard to accomplish the objective of becoming a better player.
The player with the right attitude will put the time and effort
into becoming a better hitter, a better pitcher, a better shooter,
a better rebounder, a better defender, whatever it is that the
player wants to accomplish. The player with the right attitude
will develop the necessary skills to become a better player with
a thurst and hunger for the game that does not require constant
motivation and monitoring.
The
coach with the right attitude is more than willing to study the
game to accomplish the objective of becoming a better coach. The
coach with the right attitude will take the time and make the
effort to develop the fundamental skills of all thier players
not just their star players. The coach with the right attitude
will make sure that all of their players get equal opportunities
to develop during practice. The coach with the right attitude
will focus on the positive not on the negative.
When
everything else is equal or if there is any doubt, will you as
the coach not pick the player with the better attitude? As a player
would you not work harder for a coach with a great attitude? If
your not sure what attitude you need, remember that Christ gave
us a perfect example to follow. Philippians 2:3-8
reminds us of the great attitude qualities that Jesus posessed.
Selfless
- 3Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain
conceit, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.
4Each of you should look not only at your own interests,
but also to the interests of others. - Remember that as a teammate
it's about the team not about you, as a coach it's about the players
not about you.
Serving
- 5Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ
Jesus:
6Who, although He existed in
the form of God, did not consider equality with God something
to be grasped, 7but emptied himself,
taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness.-
Serve those around you, don't try to be a god, but be comfortable
with your humaness.
Humility
- 8And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled
himself and became obedient to death-- even death on a cross!
- Forget the trash talk and the in your face attitude. Have respect
for all of the players, coaches and officials at the game. Try
to complete the game without complaining and arguing. Come to
play your best and enjoy it for what it is...a game. |